Sunday, October 9, 2016

Long Distance Does Work ♥

"It Really Does Work!"

Joshua works in a Car Ship, he works there as a Mechanical Engineer ranked as 3rd Engineer. And I work as a Secretary here in Middle East U.A.E. in a Construction Company.

We only get a chance to communicate whenever they dock or go to a Country with Internet Connection. 

I know some of you guys might be thinking that it is freaking impossible, but its not. :) 

Me and Joshua have been dating for 6 years now, and ever since we started this relationship it has always been this way. 

Since we started dating during my Senior Year on College, we've always been in a Long Distance Relationship. :)

There are some of us that can pull this kind of Relationship, but also some of us can't. It depends on how both of you and your partner handle this kind of situation.

Holding on, being polite, being loyal, being patient, being trustworthy and also being in love at the same time is very important.

Ever since my relationship with him started all I could hear was;
  • YOU GUYS WON'T WORK OUT!
  • EVERY PORT REPORT! (it means, in every port he has a girl waiting for him. Like, seriously! That's just crazy!)
  • HE WILL FOR SURE REPLACE YOU WITH SOME OTHER GIRLS! 
But I ain't no girl! I'm a lady! (rolling my eyes out)

And all sorts of negative things that they could say.

It really is crazy whenever I hear that. But never did I listen. Like, first of all, those people that are talking bad about me and my relationship are not even part of my life nor in my relationship. Why the hell should I be listening to them?!

Being STRONG is also important when it comes to this . Never in my life I have imagine that I will work abroad and pursuing my Career like this. I mean, all I was thinking about is to just wait for him whenever his contract is finish and come back home in our Hometown.

~ It is not easy! I tell you! ~

It's not all about rainbows and butterflies in this kind of situation. There are times that you can't barely think straight because some times, we can't communicate for a month or two. Yes! a month and even more! And No! Being doubtful? Nah! I'm too busy to even think negative stuff about him.

And Yes! I do trust him! In a way that I don't even bother to argue with him because I'm thinking bad and my thoughts are being crazy.

Being in a Long Distance Relationship it really is normal to daydream that "I wish he was here with me", "We could've been cuddling here by now", "I wish he could've seen this beautiful view that I'm seeing" and all sorts of things.

~ We talk and share a lot of things ~

We usually share our thoughts about things and even about the things that we could make our relationship work out even more.

Listening is also part of this situation. Listening to your partner is very important. It's not always just about you and your feelings. It's about both of you.

Don't be too selfish, when it comes to what you feel and what you think. Because Relationship is about the two of you working things out.

Proper COMMUNICATION, is also very important to this kind of Relationship.

Love and Respect each other's decision and opinion. Don't be too self-centered about everything you think nor decide.

Last but not the least, don't ever forget to LOVE YOURSELF as well. Don't forget that you need Self Love to your own soul before loving someone. ^^

Loving yourself in a balance way is not selfish at all, its a way of respecting yourself. Respecting and embracing each and every flaw you have. :) Which is our special quality of ourselves :)





♥,
Aly ^^


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Saturday, September 10, 2016

Loving My 6 Years Long Term Boyfriend ♥

"My Beautiful Long Distance Relationship with My Long Term 6 years Boyfriend"


We started out as strangers like every other partners in the world. 
From the first time ever looking at him (who is now my boyfriend), all I could think of is how beautiful his smile was. Whenever he glances at me I could see his smile outshines his face.

I never really believe of dating other guys before because when we first met I was dating with my now ex-boyfriend and he was also courting my College Classmate. 

Joshua, is his beautiful name. :)

One of my closest friend (her name is Chica) and I was meeting in this Public Park at night because it was her birthday and asked me to come and meet her there together with her older brother. Not that I know that her brother and Joshua are College Classmates. 

I heard a lot about "JOSHUA's" story about him courting my College Classmate, because as what they were telling me he was courting her for a long time and doesn't have a clue that the girl doesn't really care about him.

I never really cared about it too because I don't know anything about him but being a High School Classmate of my friends and also courting my College Classmate.

The brother of Chica was telling me that Joshua was asking for my number. And I was like nah, not interested. 

~ After 6 Months of meeting Joshua ~

Aly ~ come with us, Joshua is having a College Graduate Dinner Party and we are invited.

And I was talking to myself like, "What the hell are they talking about? Why are they inviting me when I don't even know anything about their friend and they're inviting me without even asking Joshua that they're inviting other people? Are you crazy or what?". 

"Nah, thank you though but I'm not going.", as my polite response to them.

"C'mon Aly! Let's go!", as my friend doing puppy eyes in asking me.

They were doing some drama and asking me to come with them. I really don't like going to any dinner celebration that I'm really not involve with.


"You guys won't come", as they were talking to us (with my other friend, her name is Chica) "we will not go too".


I was like, "What? Please don't mind me and Chica if we'll not come with you guys. You know I don't have any relationships nor doesn't even know anything about Joshua's life to be invited to his dinner celebration.", explaining politely to them for them to understand clearly that I am seriously not interested to come with them.  


As they were talking and waiting for me and Chica to come with them, we finally said YES because of my other friend (her name is Jomary) begged us to come because she was shy to go even though Jomary and Joshua were classmates in High School.


"Okay fine! Let's go!", as I was saying yes to them.


"Yey! Let's go guys!", happily said from my classmates.



~ As we were approaching Joshua's place ~

"Chica, why did we even said yes to this? This is so embarrassing. I don't know anything about this guy and now we're coming to his place to come and celebrate.", as I was asking my friend.

"Let's call Joshua", as my classmate said while waiting outside of his place.

"JOSHUA!!!", as my classmate yelled when they saw him coming towards us.

"His smile, yes his smile! So beautiful like the moon shining so bright at that night.", as I was talking to myself while looking at him coming towards us.

"Aly is with us Joshua!", as my classmate bragged at him while I was day dreaming and appreciating Joshua's smile.

"Say what? What are they talking about?", as I got awake from my day dreaming. 

Smiling and said, "Let's go inside!", as Joshua invited us to come in to his place.

"Hello! Good Evening!", as we all greeted the elderly in his place.

"Joshua's girlfriend is here Lola and Nanay!", as my classmate kept on embarrassing me.

My eyes almost popped out as they were all laughing together and looking at me with my clueless face. 

The look of his Grandmother wasn't please at all. :D

"Come in! Come in!", as his mother invited us to go inside.

As we all were happily chatting and laughing while eating. Joshua was talking and entertaining his other guests. And finally, he went to our table and talked to us.

I was looking at him as he was standing right in front of me, all I see is his smile, his smile! I am seriously attracted to his smile. Seriously now! Stop it Joshua! ♥_♥

"Jomary, Chica, I really like Joshua's smile!", as I told them that I liked his smile.

I never really felt like going and celebrating at this time, because I just got so hurt from my break-up to my ex-boyfriend. He stabbed me and betrayed me like hell! And I really didn't like the idea of my classmates making up some stories that me and Joshua are a couple in front of his Family.

All of my classmates knew about the break-up because my ex-boyfriend and I are all classmates. I think they just want me to get some revenge and make that Douche Bag know that I am finally over him and I have a new guy now. Which, I don't like that idea too. 

I also got the point from my classmates that they want Joshua to court me so that he will stop courting my classmate that he has been courting for a long time now.

"Let's go to the Living Room guys!",  as Joshua invited us all to transfer to the other room.

"Hello Nanay! (Nanay means Mother), as we all greeted Joshua's Mother who was in the Living Room.

"Come and sit guys!, We still have food here!", as Joshua;'s Mom invited us to have some desserts.

As we were talking and laughing all together and having some great time, his Lolo (Filipino for Grandfather), came and had a chat with us.

"Lolo! She is Joshua's Girlfriend!", while my classmate pointed her finger at me. 

"Oh! You're Joshua's Girlfriend? Well, hello there Apo! (Filipino for Grandchild/Grandchildren), as his Lolo happily greeted me.

O_O ~ Wait what? Did they just made up some stories to his Grandfather?
I was so clueless and dumbfounded on their jokes that it actually doesn't make any sense, like why are they telling this to Joshua's Family?

"What's your Family Name Apo?", as his Grandfather asked me politely about my Family name.

I felt bad for them making up some stories about me and Joshua that we were dating, which wasn't true at all.

Joshua was so busy entertaining his other guests. As he entered the room he was with two ladies and his one other guy friend. I didn't really bothered because I really don't know anything about his personal life. He let them in and guided upstairs and I believe its in his room.

He was so busy going up and down the stairs because he was also talking and laughing with us in the living room while me and him got teased and all, and as he was about to go upstairs and I just got bored a bit and thinking, "So, you guys won't stop teasing me and him huh?".

"Babe? Where are you going? Your going to leave me again? Why are you so busy and always leaving me here all alone?", as I was asking him while on his way to go upstairs and everyone was like, "Whoa!", with their eyes popping out while shouting and screaming because they didn't saw it coming.

His smile was so beautiful that I wasn't expecting that he would laughed and smile at me by calling him "Babe". But it was nothing to me at all.

As the night got darker, "Guys! I really need to go home now! My mom is calling me!", as I was telling them all that I need to get going.

"No! you cannot leave not unless you guys kiss!", as what they were asking me to do before I can leave.

"C'mon! Why would I do that? Why should I?", as I got pissed a bit for demanding me to do that silly thing.

As we all were talking and my classmates were trying to divert me as I was really anxious to leave, because I swear my Mom will transform into some scary forms if I won't go home any time soon.

Finally I said, YES to their stupid idea.

"Kiss her! Kiss her! Kiss her!", as they were chanting Joshua to kiss me.

"This is so embarrassing!", as I was talking to myself.

Choo~ :*

"Whaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaahhaaaaaaaaaaaahhaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaa", as they were all screaming while seeing Joshua kissed me on my cheek. Yes! Just on my left cheek.

"Now, can I go now?!", me talking while feeling my ears got a bit hot and I know I'm now blushing.

But before we went out from their place they asked us both to exchange numbers and be sure that both of me and him will talk again through mobile.

As everyone bid goodbye and saying thank you to Joshua's Family.

"Aly, you go ride together with Joshua's bike! He will take you home!", as my classmate said.

I was like, "No! I'll just go take a Motor cab (its a Motor Vehicle that is popular in the Philippines as a Transportation)".

And yeah, it does sound really annoying as it was for just letting myself ride Joshua's bike as he was taking me home. I couldn't really remember about what topic we were talking but yeah, we did chat for a bit as he was taking me home.

He stopped from my place for maybe 10 Meters away. :D Because I told him to.

"Thank You Babe! Thank you for the food and for taking me home safe.", as I said.

He was smiling at me like there was no tomorrow. Which was so cute and adorable. ^^

As I was walking towards our house, I felt something that I forgot how it felt like being in love. ♥
Yes guys! I felt something and I know it was sonething related about LOVE ♥.


♥,
Aly~

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